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Child Jealous of Parents Affection – 3 Practical Tips

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Are you dealing with a case of a child jealous of parents affection? 

Researchers and experts have believed that jealousy, one of the more advanced emotions, kicks in when the baby is more mature. That is around the age of two years. 

However, recent studies prove that babies start exhibiting signs of jealous behavior much sooner than that, as early as three months after birth. 

Most babies are likely to become jealous when parents or grown-ups around them become too occupied with their business and do not give the baby the attention they may need from parents. 

And, it is pretty easy to see when jealousy in your baby is kicking in.

Signs to look out for include kicking, yelling, crying, and in some cases moving around either by crawling or walking if they are mobile babies. 

Why Is A Child Jealous of Parents Affection 

While most parents are learning to be okay with the fact that their young ones are also emotional beings and have a right to express themselves, it still looks and sounds selfish from the baby’s end. 

As a  parent who cares about the baby’s personality in the future, it is advisable to get away when they are jealous.

It helps control how your baby feels and might even help them understand the concept of sharing and help them become better people.

However, this cannot happen if you do not know what triggers their jealous behavior.  

The following are the two most common reasons why babies become jealous. 

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1. The baby has more attachment with one parent 

This problem mainly occurs when there’s a massive imbalance in the home routine.

One parent is constantly away from the home environment for long hours, leaving the baby to interact with only one parent. 

The fact that there is only one parent during all crucial moments for a baby might speak volumes of affectionate words, from feeding to bathing to changing diapers and singing goofy songs for the baby. 

This makes the baby understand that they only have one close friend.

Sharing this type of affection with someone who shows up in the evening or even several days later becomes complicated for the baby. 

When such parents try being close, the baby is likely to start exhibiting signs of jealousy. 

2. The baby feels neglected by the parents  

This might not entirely be the case because you feel you have spent enough time with the baby during the day, and it’s that time you’ve set aside for you and your spouse. 

Well, the baby isn’t aware of timelines yet. He just wants you all for himself.

He may not be ready to be given a break by the people he treasures most. It is likely to get the baby upset and act a little envious. 

What can You do as a Parent? 

1. Don’t give in to the baby’s pressure  

One of the common mistakes parents make during such times is giving into the baby’s pressure.

You end up withdrawing from your partner and focusing on the baby. 

Submitting to the baby’s will may make them feel they are correct, which encourages their behavior. 

It’s cute to have your eight-month-old acting jealous but be careful it is not cute when they do such actions much later in life.

2. Try to equalize the babies attachment towards the other parent  

You can achieve this by getting the other parent to spend more time with the baby to bond. 

This becomes possible when the preferred parent is not around so that the many have no preference.

If you are the favorite, you can try removing yourself from the environment when your partner is with the baby.

If your partner lives away from home, you can ensure they engage with the baby online through video calls. 

It’s easy to change the perspective of a baby towards something, and it will not be long before he or she grows fond of the other parent. 

3. Try engaging the baby in your fun activities 

It ensures they do not feel left out. You can do this by first not showing annoyance with the baby’s reaction.

You can play games together with the baby and join together for group hugs and selfies.

Issues of child jealous of parents affection are not new. Many parents have gone through this, but it is nothing to worry a lot about.

With the right tips, you can easily manage the situation and help your child grow emotionally from a young age.

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Mo Mulla

Mo Mulla is a work from home dad who enjoys reading and listening to music, He loves being a dad and husband to a growing family. He also loves writing about his passions and hopes to change the world, 1 blog post at a time!

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